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This is a very sad and real situation that so many of us have found ourselves in. My wife and I have been married for almost 13 years and were together for over a year prior to that. Our sex life has never been what I would call amazing, but I do Love her very much and have always respected her when she denies any advances. Recently we both gave up our jobs and sold our home so that we could move to Europe again to be closer to her Family.
Work has always been something that kept us both very busy and despite my drive and attraction towards her and being denied all the time I could usually chalk it up as being too tired.
This makes me feel horrible, worthless, angry. This shatters me and kills any confidence that I have. Was she messing around behind my back all of these years when I was deployed or away at work?
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I give up. It literally makes her less attractive. I am this close to giving up. I am no longer worth her effort and time. I am no longer the most important person in her life. I am no longer worthy of being sought or pursued.
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Perhaps it was young love, perhaps she was awnt me. The affair I knew about was 6 years into our marriage. Told me some terrible things to hear as a man.
She was leaving with him. My fatal error was to try to reason with her and convince her to stay. As a Christ follower, I thought that was my duty. I pointed out that He was not good for her etc. Slcik stayed, she apologized, but nothing was ever the same. A couple of kids later and the decline from day one in intimacy had hit bottom.
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Couples retreat? No Way. Christian counseling? Been there many times.
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